在何处放置第三方库来设置c++ linux开发环境?

I'm not new in C++ although I'm new in Linux. I'm using CMake to precompile a cross platform game engine with some third party, but I have a lot of doubts about using libraries. My question is how to work with third party libraries. And where to put this libs. Apt installs libs in their official place (/usr/local, /usr/lib/ ..) but I develop in windows using local libs that are in a folder into my project dir.I'm not new in C++ although I'm new in Linux. I