如何使用jquery禁用和启用选项项?

I have 4 select items in my form. When the user selects one item in any of selects, I want this item to be disabled in each other select element. My problem happens when I select all option items, because it disables everything. How can I to enabled/disabled the items when they are selected/deselect?I have 4 select items in my form. When the user