如何省略属性基于2个不同字段的“like”子句的记录组

I need a query to omit groups where the number 16 is present in both records and are present across different attributes within the group . Basically, if we have a 16 somewhere in attributes on different records, then we know what accounts for these groups, and no further analysis is needed on them. We would like to keep results where 16 only occurs in one record in either attribute, 16 occurs in neither, and records that have nulls in them but do not have the 16 in 2 records in different attributes.I need a query to omit groups where the number